Showing posts with label unity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label unity. Show all posts

April 24, 2018


A Little Girl and a Town

“Because he loves me,” says the LORD, “I will rescue him; I will protect him, for he acknowledges my name. He will call on me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him.” – Psalm 91:14-15

Yesterday our small town turned out in light blue. Students and teachers, store clerks and office workers. It was all about a seven-year-old girl and her fight to stay alive.

This sweet girl had a tumor removed, a “lesion”, from her brain. How can a child, a second-grade beauty queen, be okay one minute and then rushed to Children’s Hospital in another? What are parents to do when faced with the very real possibility of burying their child? How do they conquer their fear and remain strong for their little girl?

There are moments when you realize how fragile life is. There are times when you realize that you really aren’t in control. There are tears when you realize all those heartbreaking verses in the Bible were intended to bring you comfort. Hope, that fragile thing that rests on faith, comes on the bended knees of desperation.

A community rallied to lift up one of its own. The light blue symbolized those who prayed that God would heal, that God would gift comfort and strength, for this uncertain journey. Because tomorrow really isn’t promised no matter how determined we might be.

Many people hugged their babies a little closer these last few days. Grandparents counted their blessings and savored moments with their grandchildren. This little girl was a stark reminder that we never know what the day will bring. Devastation is just a moment away.

We see the faith in God, the trust that He will turn it all to good even as He heals. One photo stuck out in my mind: that of two little girls deep in prayer. Best friends since they met at six-weeks-old. One determined child praying for another, teaching us that in our most desperate moments we cry out to the God who provides miracles and healing and comfort and strength.

The surgery was a success. The doctors think they’ve removed it all. It could take six days to get the test results back. But for now all is well. She is alive and fighting back. A community breathed a sigh of relief. God is good.

God is always good. Even if the surgery outcome had been bad, God is still good. Even if God one day chooses to heal this little girl by taking her home, He is still good. We miss that sometimes as we shout out our halleluiahs. We forget about the times God said no.

My thoughts go to a young man who only lived to be 20. He was diagnosed with cancer shortly after high school graduation. The fight was long and hard. He almost made it. Almost. His absence created a hole in the hearts of those who knew and loved him. Faith is a promise of seeing him again but it doesn’t take away the heartbreak of burying a child who never really had a chance to be a man.

We wrap our hearts around this little girl and her family. We pray without ceasing. We are grateful for every small step toward recovery. We rest in His grace and mercy. We are held by His strength, on the prayers of all those who have united as one.

Prayer is a powerful thing. It’s really too bad that it takes something so awful to bring us to our knees before the throne of God, a place we should have been all along.

January 11, 2015

Be Kind
 
"But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you."
-- Matthew 5:44

Some people are just hard to love. They are. And yet we are called to love them anyway.

I am participating in a church-wide study on what it means to be a church member. Today's topic was on unity. Don't gossip. Be kind. Be compassionate. Don't always expect to get your way on music, sermon times, budget matters or anything else.

It also means forgiving people who have done you wrong, whether they know it or not. Because sometimes people hurt us without even realizing that they have done so. And sometimes they do it intentionally. That brings me back to my original comment: Some people are just hard to love.

Many of us have folks like that in our lives. It might be a church member who criticizes everything. It could be a co-worker who always takes credit for your work. It might be a neighbor who lets his dog poop on your lawn -- again and again. It could be a family member who is so self-focused that he or she can't see anyone else.

There are no easy answers. No quick fixes. No magic wands to make it all better. Sometimes we can distance ourselves from difficult people. Sometimes we are well and truly stuck. Such is the case with family members. That includes our church family.

As members of the church, we are all humans struggling to get it right. And failing every single day. How we treat others, how we build unity within, reflects outward as well. There are few things as sad as a church split apart by dissension. If we can't get along with each other, how can we love and tend to a hostile world? We can't.

Jesus tells us to love everyone. Kindness deflates more anger than attitude. Compassion turns more hearts than harsh words. Love reflects Jesus. It's that simple and it's that hard.

We'd at least like for difficult people to acknowledge that they are difficult. We'd like for them to appreciate our efforts. They don't. Because they don't see beyond themselves. Do we want to be like them? Or do we want to be like Jesus?

So let it go when someone is critical. Refuse to participate in gossip. Be kind to those who don't deserve it. Why? Because Jesus has been kind to us and we don't deserve it either.