Showing posts with label decisions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label decisions. Show all posts

December 15, 2018


Listen for Him

“For God knows that when you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”
– Genesis 3:5

“Son of man, say to the ruler of Tyre, ‘This is what the Sovereign LORD says:
‘“In the pride of your heart you say, “I am a god; I sit on the throne of a god in the heart of the seas.”
But you are a mere mortal and not a god, though you think you are as wise as a god.”’ – Ezekiel 28:2

From the very beginning, we’ve been trying to pretend we’re like God. We think we can be smart and know all things. Arrogance and the devil tells us we can.

We can’t, of course. Just as the serpent led Eve to destruction, so will he lead us to destruction as well. It’s that arrogance that tells us to disregard God’s rules and focus on our own wants and desires.

I was in a church meeting recently where a controversial topic was being discussed. We weren’t making decisions or even voicing personal opinions. We were there to learn about the various options and what they might mean for us two months from now.

That said, body language clearly revealed the sides that are forming. It is not going to be pleasant. Some people have set their beliefs in stone. They’ll gladly pull out Scripture to back those beliefs up. Both sides, I might add.

That’s how it is with controversy. Everyone thinks they know God’s true will better than anyone else. We tell ourselves that over and over again. It helps us stand firm in what we believe, whether it is truly God’s will or not

The hard truth is that some things make us uncomfortable. We don’t want to read what God says about welcoming foreigners into our land. We’d rather pull out the passage about obeying the law. Which is right and which is wrong? Maybe both views are right and both views are wrong.

Our churches are facing some hard issues. There are no easy answers. But there are a few basic things we should remember. God is love, would be the first thing. Jesus told us the greatest commandment was to love God above all else and the second was to love our neighbors as ourselves. When we get those two things in the correct order, everything else falls into place.

Before we left that day, one committee member said something really basic and totally true. He told everyone not to spend the next two months fretting over what might or might not happen. He suggested that instead we spend that time in prayer, asking the Holy Spirit to provide discernment and for the delegates to be led to vote however God would have them vote.

We don’t know what’s the best direction in this situation, no matter how much we might think we do. We aren’t God. What we don’t know far outweighs what we think we do know.

My friend offered all of us wise advice. The question now is whether we can get over ourselves long enough to actually pray and listen for God’s voice or whether we’re going to be so focused on what we “know” that we miss Him in the midst of it all.

May 13, 2016

Jesus Leads The Way
Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” And they divided up his clothes by casting lots. -- Luke 23:34

As far as anniversaries go, it really isn’t a major one. And yet it changed so many lives forever.

One person made a decision. It was his to make, though no one else agreed with it. That set off a chain reaction of events and consequences that we will live with for the rest of our lives.

It wasn’t so much that the decision changed us all. It’s that the decision, and its aftermath, revealed hearts and desires and motives that had been carefully hidden from view. Once exposed, such things never go back into hiding. We are all different for that.

The events began a long, long time ago. It’s what happens when anger and resentment and jealousy aren’t dealt with and are instead allowed to fester and grow. It’s what happens in broken families who focus on pretending to be what they aren’t rather than trying to become what they desire.

It comes back to the hearts of the people involved. We’re all flawed. We’re humans after all. But lies and hatred are a lethal combination, one that can only be overcome with prayer.

The Pharisees hated Jesus. They felt threatened by Him. Certainly, Jesus knew who and what they were. So they rallied a crowd against Him and Jesus died an unimaginable death on the cross.

While people watched. What could possibly have been in the hearts of those who watched Jesus die? Certainly some of those who loved Him were there. His mother. John. Others.

But what about those who were part of the crowd? How could they join the frenzy? And how could they live with themselves afterwards? Even if they didn’t believe Jesus to be the Messiah, surely they understood that a good man shouldn’t die for the sins of others?

And, yet, He did. Jesus died for me and you. He died for us all so that whoever believes in Him, believes that He rose three days later and now sits at God’s right hand, will spend eternity with Him in heaven.

And you know what else this passage says? Jesus forgave them. As He suffered on that cross, Jesus forgave those who put Him there. How powerful! How magnificent! How could we ever not forgive our own to tormentors?

Life will never be the same. Forgiveness is hard. But Jesus lights the path and I follow Him. In the end, that’s really all that matters.