Show Kindness and Compassion
“In a surge of anger
I hid my face from you for a moment,
but with everlasting kindness
I will have compassion on you,”
says the Lord your Redeemer. -- Isaiah 54:8
I hid my face from you for a moment,
but with everlasting kindness
I will have compassion on you,”
says the Lord your Redeemer. -- Isaiah 54:8
I am so grateful for God’s kindness and compassion. Every day I fail Him and every day He takes me back.
I try to remember that when I am called to show that same kindness and compassion to others. I want to remember they deserve from me what God has given so graciously.
Yesterday I was at a large super center. Not by choice, I might add. I really do try to avoid the place, sometimes paying more for an item just so I can get in and out of the store quickly. But there are times when you really have no other options.
I mention this because of what happened at the cash register when I paid for my item. The cashier rang up my purchase with ease. Then she accidentally hit the wrong key, telling the computerized register I‘d paid with a $20 instead of a $10.
An easy fix, right? She got her calculator out but she couldn’t figure out how much money she owed me. She was beginning to get really flustered.
I looked at the couple behind me. They looked at me. “I think it’ll just be $10 less than what the screen is showing,” I told her. She worked it on the calculator and a big sigh escaped. “That’s right.”
Panic averted. She handed me my change and I headed out the door. I have no idea how it worked out when she turned in her cash drawer but I hope her bosses understood.
She was trying, you know? She really was. I admire that. The way she got so flustered I had to wonder if she’s been put down for mistakes in the past. Were their times when words have battered her self esteem?
How many times have I not been kind when someone didn’t meet my expectations? How often have I thrown off a comment without stopping to consider where and how it would land?
What about you? Do you consider your words when faced with frustrations? Do you condemn or do you show compassion? It’s something we all need to think about.