Pay Attention To History
"But you his son, O Belshazzar, have not humbled yourself, though you knew all this."
-- Daniel 5:22
History, as the old saying goes, has a way of repeating itself. The way we make changes is to learn from the past and take a different path. That's true of our own actions. It's true of others as well.
Belshazzar knew the history of his land. He was required to. Yet, he ignored that history. I guess he got caught up in his own power, surrounded by his "yes" people, and he refused to acknowledge God's power and control over the kingdom.
Belshazzar really insulted God. He used the gold and silver goblets taken from God's temple in Jerusalem and used them at a banquet. Bad mistake. Truly. He hadn't learned anything from his ancestors. Otherwise he would have known what not to do. God made sure Belshazzar paid for the insult with his life.
Don't we do the same thing? We make the same mistakes again and again. We refuse to acknowledge the past yet we expect different results. It's especially difficult when the same people disappoint us again and again. Yet, why are we surprised? History shows the same pattern and they are just being who they are.
Jesus tells us to forgive repeatedly. But forgiveness doesn't mean allowing people to continue to control our lives with their hurtful actions. Sometimes forgiveness means moving on and forging a new path. Forgiveness means trusting God to handle things. We can't change people any more than the prophet Daniel could change Belshazzar. Letting go and giving the situation over to God provides the greatest freedom, allowing us to move past the situation, knowing that God always takes care of His own.