Showing posts with label 2 Corinthians 2. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 2 Corinthians 2. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Reach For Jesus While You Can

Our lives are a fragrance presented by Christ to God. But this fragrance is perceived differently by those being saved and by those perishing. To those who are perishing we are a fearful smell of death and doom. But to those who are being saved we are a life-giving perfume. -- 2 Corinthians 2:15-26a (NLT)

It was a sudden death brought on by years of ignoring the symptoms. A heart attack. No one was surprised but it didn’t stop the sadness or the breaking hearts of those left behind.

The greatest heartbreak is that, unless something happened recently between he and God, he wasn’t a Christian. He refused to let a Savior into his hardened heart. He wouldn’t even entertain the possibility of his need.

So many of us tried to talk with him. Over years we tried. We kept thinking that a moment would come, words would flow, and light would finally open his blind eyes. But he couldn’t see past his pain and grief and anger.

He’d never been a Christian. His wife had been. But she’d died a slow, painful death from an illness that robbed her of her ability to function at all. Many times he would tell others that there was no point in being a Christian because it hadn’t done his wife any good. He couldn’t understand the promise of eternity. He couldn’t see the hope of tomorrow.

He admitted that his wife’s greatest desire was that he give his life to Christ. He just couldn’t do it. We talked about it but he wouldn’t budge. Instead, he grew more unhappy as the years went by.

Those who only knew him in bits and pieces probably thought he was getting on with his life. He got a girlfriend. He left his job. He was who he was. But he would talk about his wife and his eyes would grow distant. She kept him in line, focused, calm.

Without her, he was rudderless. She hadn’t meant to leave him behind but none of us can count our days before we’re gone. It’s what happens when we rely on other people -- even those who love us -- to be what only God can be. Always there. Dependable. Loving. Perfect. Strong.

He bragged about going home from work, cooking and eating a big dinner, then sitting on his front porch and drinking beer. One beer after another, all the while smoking an endless stream of cigarettes.

No one was surprised that he suffered a fatal heart attack. We remembered the good man, the laughter, the intense love he had for his son. And we mourned that he was lost forever. God’s child who refused to admit he needed a Savior until it was too late to make a choice.

Have you given your life to Jesus? Are you resting secure in His love? We don’t always have a moment to cry out. Sometimes it’s just too late.

Saturday, March 26, 2011

Forgive And Move On

If anyone has caused grief, he has not so much grieved me as he has grieved all of you, to some extent -- not to put it too severely. The punishment inflicted on him by the majority is sufficient for him. Now instead, you ought to forgive and comfort him, so that he will not be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow.
-- 1 Corinthians 2:5-7

We are a people with a long memory. We remember every insult, every misspoken word, every perceived wrong. We remind the person regularly, regardless of whether they've asked for forgiveness. We can't let it go. We know we should. The Bible says to forgive. It's as though the wrong somehow makes us feel superior, as though we are better than the other person.

Funny how things do stay with you. In elementary school, I had a friend with really big hair. She went to the beauty parlor every week with her mother and they had their hair done. This is the Deep South so you can imagine the teasing and curling that entailed.

I'm not even sure what happened. I must have bumped her or tripped her or something. But the end result was chocolate milk down the front of her dress -- on beauty parlor day. I apologized. And apologized. And apologized. She kept bringing it up. Not just for that day but for days and days after that. All these years later that's what I remember -- that she couldn't let it go and move on.

I know I've been guilty of similar things over the years. It's like we want the person to remember, to wallow in the muck, to feel bad -- again and again and again. I don't think it makes us feel any better. Probably just the opposite because it means we're still dwelling on the past long after it's time to let go.

It also messes with the self-esteem of the other person. No matter what the other person did, do we really want that person to continue to stay in the pit of destruction? Think carefully before you answer. The Bible clearly tells us that we should expect God to judge us with the same measuring stick we use to judge others. Everyone deserves the opportunity to repent and be forgiven, to choose a different path and to be lifted up by the love of Jesus.

The consequences of bad choices or mistakes usually are sufficient to correct any wrong. If not, God can handle the rest. Our job is to show Christ's love with kindness, compassion and, yes, forgiveness.