April 2, 2018


Who Do You Turn To?

God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. – Psalm 46:1

When something bad happens, who is the first one you turn to? When your world is shattered, who is the one who helps you pick up the pieces?

Friends and family can be wonderful in bad and uncertain times. But no one is better at handling trouble than God. He alone is equipped to guide us and rescue us from the evil that can sometimes surround us.

We have to ask for His help. Unlike many people in our lives, God doesn’t generally insert Himself into our troubles without an invitation. Instead, He waits patiently until we reach the point when we need Him so desperately that we cry out in pain and frustration. Then He’s right there.

Bad times generally turn people completely toward God or completely away from Him. We may pretend otherwise but our hearts tell a different story. There’s been many a person who went through the motions of church while harboring a deep anger at God for what He did or didn’t do for them or their loved one.

A dear friend became a widower long before he expected. In fact, he’d always believed he’d be the first to go home. He was years older than his wife. She was in good health and getting closer to retirement. They had plans for travel and spoiling the grandchildren and just growing old together.

ALS is an awful disease, robbing the body of its function while allowing the mind to see and know everything. His grief surrounds him even as he pushes forward. He has joined a new church, the one his son and grandchildren have long attended. He is a volunteer and attends almost every function at the church. He is learning and growing in Christ in a way he never expected. There’s nothing quite like death to make you realize skating through life with a lightweight faith just doesn’t work anymore.

Another friend has turned away from God. His splintered family has ripped his heart apart. Only God could possibly untangle the lies and change the circumstances of his situation. But God allowed it to happen and he is just too angry to cry out for help.

He has pulled away from church and faith. He numbs his sorrow drinking in clubs and filling his off hours with friends who do the same. His wife prays for him, for revival in his hardened heart. Will he ever turn back to the shallow faith he once claimed? Will he ever reach out to the only One who can heal and restore?

Life is full of hardship, of brokenness and lies. People we trusted will betray us in the worst ways. Illness comes even when you do everything right. Jobs are lost. Accidents happen. Life can sometimes be so hard.

God has all the answers. No. He won’t stop the bad from happening. This is a fallen world after all. But He does promise to be our refuge, our strength, our guiding light when trouble comes. We can count on His love when everyone around us seems distant and untrustworthy.

Which path do you choose? Do you choose to draw closer to God when trouble hits or do you choose to pull away?

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