Showing posts with label outcasts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label outcasts. Show all posts

March 1, 2018

Draw the Outcasts Close

And as He was leaving Jericho with His disciples and a great crowd, Bartimaeus, a blind beggar, the son of Timaeus, was sitting by the roadside. And when he heard that it was Jesus of Nazareth, he began to cry out and say, “Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me!” And many rebuked him, telling him to be silent. But he cried out all the more, “Son of David, have mercy on me!” – Mark 10:46-48

There is acceptable. And then there is unacceptable. Ask any lifelong church member. There is an unwritten code of conduct that demands a certain way of worshipping to all who enter.

It has nothing to do with Jesus. The Son of David came to set us free of the constraints of those who demand we be silent. He came to save us. He hears our cries for mercy and salvation. Jesus calls us closer even as others – those self-righteous Christians with all their rules – push us away.

I am blessed to attend a contemporary worship service where coffee and “amens” and hands raised are normal. No one would dare do those things during one of the traditional services. The condemning glances would wither even a strong soul.

This is the church – loving though it is – that years ago told a couple not to bring their special child to services anymore. She was disruptive, they said. She talked when she wasn’t supposed to. She reminded them that not all babies are born healthy and “normal”.

So they pulled away from church, from Jesus, when they needed help the most. They withdrew into a world where their child was accepted, even as that world grew smaller and smaller. No amount of love from others could erase the rejection of those who should have loved with abandoned acceptance.

Then there was the couple who attended another church with their autistic toddler. The condemning comments and stares were like daggers aimed at their hearts. They struggled to entertain him, to prevent outbursts, to fit into the church that had been their home for so long. The weight of it all led them in a futile search for somewhere, anywhere, where they could worship and serve Jesus and not face the condemnation of those who claimed to be His people.

The same scenario plays out in churches everywhere. People are displeased by crying babies and bored kids. They are upset when people cry out to God, actually go to the alter in tears, or when they don’t dress the part. It has nothing to do with Jesus.

Jesus heard Bartimaeus. He called him close. Jesus looked at this blind beggar, so desperate for help, and asked him what he wanted. Jesus could easily have ignored Bartimaeus. He could have overlooked the beggar as others rebuked Bartimaeus and told him to be silent. Instead, Jesus beckoned him to come. Just like Jesus beckons us to come near.

And Jesus said to him, “What do you want me to do for you?” And the blind man said to him, “Rabbi, let me recover my sight.” And Jesus said to him, “Go your way; your faith has made you well.” And immediately he recovered his sight and followed him on the way. – Mark 10:51-52


Jesus healed much more than Bartimaeus’ eyesight. He healed this beggar’s heart. He drew toward Him someone others had cast aside. Who are you pointing a finger at? Who grates on your nerves as you worship Jesus? Beckon them close. Embrace them. Be Jesus to those who need to feel loved and accepted by their church family.

Monday, March 26, 2012

Show Kindness To Everyone

“So now I am giving you a new commandment Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.” -- John 13:34-35

He was back again this year. I wasn’t surprised. He’s there every year. Alone. He stops by my art booth, then moves on when I get busy. Then he comes back.

His presence upsets some people. Another vendor warned me against him. He’s different, I know. And not someone I would really ever want to be alone with. I’m not sure why. Maybe it is that difference that unsettles me.

A friend told me the man was brilliant but something happened years ago. He had a nervous breakdown. He’s never been quite the same. And that makes everyone uneasy.

A couple of years ago he told me he was lonely. Not in a come on kind of way. Just in conversation. I don’t think he has many, if any, friends. Just his parents and the people he sees when he’s walking or venturing out. That is sad. He yearns for that connection and yet can’t seem to find it.

Different is not popular in our culture. We want cookie-cutter people to live cookie-cutter lives. When someone doesn’t fit in, well, that just upsets everything and we turn away. It’s easier.

Please don’t misunderstand what I’m saying here. Never, ever put yourself in a dangerous situation or trust a stranger. But being kind, well, that’s different. We should always be kind. Compassionate. Treat people as Jesus would.

It is easier to ostracize those we don’t understand. To ignore them. Like refusing to meet the eyes of someone who is homeless, someone in recovery, someone unemployed. They make us uncomfortable so we reject them. And call ourselves Christians just the same.

But Jesus tells us that others will know that we are His disciples by the love we show to others. Jesus didn’t qualify that. He didn’t tell us to only love the people “like” us or the people we want to love. Jesus told us to love each other. Do you really think Jesus meant only the people we want to love, the people who are easy to love, the people who are part of our group?

I likely will never know this man’s story. I don’t feel comfortable, safe, venturing into a friendship with him. But he is someone Jesus loves. Showing this man kindness is an easy way to let him know that Jesus cares and sees him where he is.

Saturday, February 4, 2012


We All Must Show Jesus’ Love

“For John the Baptist came and showed you the way to life, and you didn’t believe him, while tax collectors and prostitutes did. And even when you saw this happening, you refused to turn from your sins and believe him.” -- Matthew 21:32

There’s a sign that everyone sees as they exit the parking lot of Aldersgate United Methodist Church in Montgomery. It says “Now Entering the Mission Field.” I love that sign because it reminds all of us that the world needs to know Jesus and we, His people, are the missionaries appointed to tell them the Good News.

Most of us who call ourselves Christians are good people. Oh, we make mistakes every single day. We fall far short of God’s Glory. We would be lost and without hope if it weren’t for Jesus’ blood washing away our sins. But we try. We do. We want to do good and do the right things.

If we can, we write a check for a worthy cause. We’ll eat a dinner where the proceeds are for something good. We’ll listen to those just back from mission trips and we’ll clap loudly and praise them with our words. We’ll do a great many things for God’s Kingdom -- so long as we don’t have to get dirty.

We want to minister to people like us. We don’t mind taking the occasional casserole to a friend or giving a ride to a neighbor. But we balk at buying a bag of groceries and leaving it anonymously at the doorstep of someone we don’t know who is out of work. We refuse to give a ride to someone who is disabled and lives on the “bad” side of town.

We show up -- but only partway and never with quite a full heart. See we are Christians only to a point. A point that is convenient and nice and comfortable. We let the professionals -- the pastors and missionaries -- take care of the rest. Except in this broken world there are far too many broken people and not nearly enough “professionals” to take care of them and show them God’s love.

Besides, God never meant for only certain people to tell others about Jesus. He didn’t intend for us to horde our possessions, refusing to share with those in need. God never planned for us to be Christians in name only. He expected us to embrace His Son’s heart - the same heart that beats within us when we become Christians - and go out into the world and do good.

Are you living as Jesus lived? Are you loving and caring for those in need, whether they are “like” you or not? Are you reaching out so that others can know the love of a Savior? Is the world around you a better place because you are in it?

When Jesus lives within us, we change. It’s that simple and that complicated. Life can’t go on as it did before. We can’t hold back. We can’t live life comfortably, ignoring the poor, the lost, the sick, the outcasts. We must act because it’s what Jesus would do.