May 7, 2018


What Will People Remember?

“He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.”
– Revelation 21:4

Sometimes life hurts. It doesn’t make sense. It leaves you with a gaping hole in your heart that you just know will never heal.

Our community lost one of its own in a horrific car wreck in Georgia. She fought it. She did. But she died anyway and nothing will ever be the same.

Some people touch lives. It’s that simple and that complicated. She was an emergency room physician noted for being kind and compassionate. The prayers and comments came from everywhere. She helped a mama tell her baby girl that she had a brain tumor. She told the survivor of a bad wreck that the other person had died. She was on the hard line between life and death so many times. Was she a good doctor? Absolutely! But what people talk about is her heart.

She left behind a husband and young children. They all attended our church. There will be questions. How could there not be? Mamas are supposed to come home to us, not leave for heaven before they have a chance to raise their babies and cuddle their grandbabies.

It’s a reminder for all of us. There’s no guarantee that we will have tomorrow. There’s no guarantee we’ll have the next hour. What really matters? Salvation, obviously. We need to know Jesus, to understand what He did for us, to accept His sacrifice. We need to live with the assurance that death can’t snatch us from Jesus. Death has no claim on us.

But what about those we leave behind? How will they remember us?  What kind of legacy are we leaving behind?

Rarely do we stop and consider that. We’re too focused on ourselves, our families, our immediate needs of the day to think about what people will remember if we’re suddenly gone.

Consider the people who have gone to heaven. When I think of Aunt Murl my mind sees her sitting quietly in a chair as she prayed. She was feisty and outspoken and she loved Jesus with a passion that can only come from deep, deep faith. I think of my cousin Peggy, so soft spoken and kind. She was smart and so very proud of her grandson, the preacher. She never stopped studying the Bible, never stopped learning and asking questions. I loved to spend time with her talking about Jesus. I miss that.

Of course, not all memories are wonderful. Some are filled with people who didn’t live a faith they proclaimed. Other memories are of people forever lost because they refused to believe. There are people who showed up on Sunday because it was expected. They never let a little church slow down their abundant lifestyle. What do we remember about them? How much alcohol they drank? How many times their spouse looked the other way at some “indiscretion?” How much money they made or where they lived? Things of the world pass away. They are not what leave lasting memories and change hearts for the better.

What do you want people to say about you when you are gone? Think about it. Then live your life accordingly.

No comments: