Tuesday, March 30, 2010

What Is Really Important

"I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith." --  2 Timothy 4:7

One of my first assignments as a journalism student was to write my own obituary. Yeah. Everyone in the class had to do it. It'll make you stop and think.

In hindsight, maybe a better assignment would be to write our own eulogy. An obituary is all about basic facts -- when are the services, who are the survivors, maybe a tidbit or two about your job or volunteer activities. A eulogy is a little different. A speaker is called upon to sing your praises, so to speak. What would someone say about you or me?

Do you think they'll mention your bank account balance? What about that snazzy new outfit you just had to purchase? Will they talk about the high-priced car you drove or the elite address you called your own? What will people say about you?

More importantly, what do you want people to say about you? Do you want people to remember how much you loved your family? Do you want people to recall how you went out of your way to speak a kind word or offer a helping hand, with no expectation for repayment? Will people mention your kindness, your volunteer spirit, your honesty? Will they know how much you loved the Lord?

Not too long ago I heard one of the best eulogies ever. The speaker shared funny stories and the special love that brought  the man she spoke of into their lives. She also shared his faith. She spoke about how much he loved Jesus and shared Him every chance he got. She spoke the truth. I knew the man. He was good and honest and loved Jesus with all his heart. He sought each day to live his faith. That's what I remember about him.

What do you think people will say about you after you've left this life? It's something to consider when you make decisions each day. What is really important?

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